I’ve written a lot about dating apps and websites over the years, but instead of me complaining this time about how difficult it is for me to actually get a girl, I’m going to share some truth and the knowledge I’ve acquired over the years.
First of all, dating apps and internet dating sites are not safe ways to date. When all this app stuff wasn’t around, you went to a bar, a night club, church, or somewhere else at night or when you got off from work on a Friday night. You stood at the bar and talked face to face with the woman you were interested in.
There was no exchange of personal information or data, you didn’t need to register, and you didn’t waste your time. You simply approached the person and kicked your game.
Today, with apps and websites, that’s definitely not the case. It seems like people want more and more information before they’re willing to at least exchange phone numbers and get off the site, but how much information is too much? And, do you really want to keep repeating the same story over and over again and answering the same stupid questions every time you see a picture of a cute female?
You shouldn’t have to. In reality, the app or the site should only be used as a meeting point. A picture, a name, and a phone number is all that should be required. How much time talking back and forth on a website do you need before you exchange phone numbers and verify who it is you’re typing messages to?
The less information the better, so let’s start with that. If you come across a profile where the person decided to write a book in the space reserved for a brief description of oneself, stay away.
Personally, I don’t care she’s a single mom, but personally, I stay away from any profile that says, “My kids are my world” or “My kids come first.” No shit your kids come first, I would hope your children are your number one priority. If you and I get together, taking care of your children becomes a responsibility we share. They’re not mine, but because I love you, I love them as well.
What you’ll discover eventually is that women who put an emphasis on their children in their profiles are more likely to use their children to drive a wedge between the two of you. The importance of her children become a priority out of convenience. Stay away.
*Any profile containing pictures of horses or her riding horses, stay away.
*Any profile containing pictures with friends, other men, or children, stay away.
*Any profile where the women says, “Ask me anything,” stay away.
*Stay away from any profile containing mainstream culture language like, “Sassy” “420-friendly” “DIY” “Ghosting”.
*Stay away from any profile containing pictures that look fake.
So, in closing, I suggest that you be patient and reserved. Don’t send nude pictures of yourself to people you don’t know because you never know who you’re talking to. Be safe my friends. Most of the females who claim to know what they want actually have no idea, so take your time.
Nooz Buffet 