I really learned a lesson today.
I met someone three years ago who said she was ready for a serious relationship. And every time I showed her I was serious she would back out.
On top of that, she never invited me over to spend time with her and her children. She always invited me over late at night, so, that’s the relationship we had. We were sex buddies, I guess.
Despite the limited time I had to spend with her, I remained faithful. Part of me said let her go and the other side said maybe this will work out. So, I hung in there, and she slept around, dated other guys, and continued to keep her profile up on the dating site.
She would get videos and pictures of other guys sent to her all day, and I never said anything about it. Then she started yelling at me one day telling me to stop sending her dirty pictures and to stop talking dirty to her during the day.
That wasn’t me. LOl, Umm, excuse me, I think you have me mixed up with your buddies on your dating site.
Anyway, I continued talking to her despite the many and numerous reasons that kept popping up for why I should let her go.
I loved her, I loved her despite the fact that she had three or four different baby fathers and many children.
I was always positive and optimistic about our relationship, and I was constantly thinking about ways I could pick her up and make her happy.
Then there was the money thing. For the first two years we talked, she didn’t have enough money to buy a pack of cigarettes. When I would see her she would ask me to pick up cigarettes and wine before I came. So, I would.
Then she moved to a nicer bigger home, and all of a sudden she had lots of money and offered to take care of me. Things keep getting weird and nothing ever made sense.
She kept inviting me over later at night and we would have sex. Then recently, she invited me over and I was too tired. It was midnight, and I had work the next day.
So, she said okay, well, if you can’t come over, talk to me dirty over text. So, I did. Then she asked me to send her a picture of my dick. I’ve been talking to this woman and sleeping with her for almost three years, but I told her no. I decided not to send her a picture of my dick because I remember her telling me a story of how her ex husband sent her a dick picture and she called the cops on him.
So, I said no, I won’t send you a picture of my dick, but I’ll send you a picture of someone else’s dick. She agreed and laughed, so googled the word dick, and I sent her pictures of random dicks. Soon after she was cumming.
Well, three days later she’s texting me saying there’s something wrong with me, and how could I send her those pictures.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? You asked me to send them!
LOL, I can’t even believe it. I mean seriously, grow up. I never met a more deceitful and manipulative person. Do you know how many pictures she sent me of herself with her legs wide open and of her ass? I never told her she had something wrong with her, and I never acted like she sent those in a way that was forceful or inappropriate. And I never asked her to send them nor did she ask my permission.
I’m a 44 year old man and she’s almost 50. I can’t believe her behavior.
Anyway, the lesson here is that if you’re getting the feeling that something isn’t right, it probably isn’t. Here’s a relationship ongoing for almost three years and she turns around one-day and treats me like a stranger.
It’s really a shame, I guess you really have to be careful with who you talk to and who you open yourself up to. And you think it’s gets easier when you get older? Nope.
Truth be told, I should’ve left her sitting there on her porch by herself when I drove to her house to meet her for the first time.
Fellas, if a woman has five kids from three different men, and all of those men left her, there’s probably a very good reason.
Well, I’m seeing it first hand now for myself.
Nooz Buffet 