You’re having a conversation with someone and they say, “Call me whenever you have time.”
And you respond, “Okay, I’ll call you later.”
And then they say, “What are you talking about, I didn’t tell you to call me.”
Gaslighting is someone’s intentional attempt at making you question yourself. Are they trying to make you seem crazy? Maybe. I don’t know and I can’t say what their intent is, but you’ll know.