March 20, 2025
I think the best way to begin this is to restate something most people already know or heard before. Selfishness.
When you begin to get it, and when you begin to put yourself first and take care of your own business, some people around you might call you selfish. They might also say that you think you’re too good for them.
The truth is that by resolving all your personal issues, you ensure that you’re presenting the best version of yourself to the world around you. How can you help someone if you need help yourself? How can you love the people around you if you don’t love yourself?
Boundaries are another thing. Making sure that you have a quiet place to work, to read and write, to study, or to just relax and sleep, prevents burnout. Boundaries are put in place to give you a break. We need them, and no one should have 24-hour access to us.
We kind of know all that.
Here’s where things can get tricky, and here’s where it’s easy for people to deceive us.
“We’re all one.”
Have you heard that?
I know in the spiritual and the metaphysical worlds, I hear it all the time.
That statement has a layer or two to it, and if you don’t understand it totally, it can be used against you when you’re doing the right thing and the necessary thing, which is taking care of yourself and creating boundaries.
We all have our own bodies. We’re all different; different colors, different heights, some of us have longer legs or shorter arms, we speak different languages, and we come from all different parts of the world.
How are we all one? Well, physically, we’re all human.
What about mentally?
You have your everyday-decision making mind, and you have a subconscious mind. In order for you to get into that file-cabinet of a subconscious mind, you have to really be what many people will call selfish.
You cannot be afraid to be alone with yourself to understand yourself. You might reject eating dinner with friends because you’re fasting, or you might spend a lot of time in isolation.
This is going to sound weird, but the more of an individual you become, the more universal you become.
And that’s the secret, universal consciousness! Uni, the prefix, means one. One consciousness.
That’s one massive pool of conscious awareness, sacred symbolism, and memories.
We’re are all human beings with the ability to communicate telepathically because we share one mind, but the only way to become one is to get into that level of consciousness, and to do that, you must first become individual.
If you’re interested in this, then I’ll suggest a fun read for you guys that I purchased in 2010.
Alright everyone, have a wonderful evening.
Nooz Buffet 