Beware, Dating App Profiles for Men to Avoid

I’ve written a lot about dating apps and websites over the years, but instead of me complaining this time about how difficult it is for me to actually get a girl, I’m going to share some truth and the knowledge I’ve acquired over the years.

First of all, dating apps and internet dating sites are not safe ways to date. When all this app stuff wasn’t around, you went to a bar, a night club, church, or somewhere else at night or when you got off from work on a Friday night. You stood at the bar and talked face to face with the woman you were interested in.

There was no exchange of personal information or data, you didn’t need to register, and you didn’t waste your time. You simply approached the person and kicked your game.

Today, with apps and websites, that’s definitely not the case. It seems like people want more and more information before they’re willing to at least exchange phone numbers and get off the site, but how much information is too much? And, do you really want to keep repeating the same story over and over again and answering the same stupid questions every time you see a picture of a cute female?

You shouldn’t have to. In reality, the app or the site should only be used as a meeting point. A picture, a name, and a phone number is all that should be required. How much time talking back and forth on a website do you need before you exchange phone numbers and verify who it is you’re typing messages to?

The less information the better, so let’s start with that. If you come across a profile where the person decided to write a book in the space reserved for a brief description of oneself, stay away.

Personally, I don’t care she’s a single mom, but personally, I stay away from any profile that says, “My kids are my world” or “My kids come first.” No shit your kids come first, I would hope your children are your number one priority. If you and I get together, taking care of your children becomes a responsibility we share. They’re not mine, but because I love you, I love them as well.

What you’ll discover eventually is that women who put an emphasis on their children in their profiles are more likely to use their children to drive a wedge between the two of you. The importance of her children become a priority out of convenience. Stay away.

*Any profile containing pictures of horses or her riding horses, stay away.

*Any profile containing pictures with friends, other men, or children, stay away.

*Any profile where the women says, “Ask me anything,” stay away.

*Stay away from any profile containing mainstream culture language like, “Sassy” “420-friendly” “DIY” “Ghosting”.

*Stay away from any profile containing pictures that look fake.

So, in closing, I suggest that you be patient and reserved. Don’t send nude pictures of yourself to people you don’t know because you never know who you’re talking to. Be safe my friends. Most of the females who claim to know what they want actually have no idea, so take your time.

Q&A With Goddess Kate

I’ve had my Twitter account since 2011, and I’ll be honest; it’s laughable to see that I’ve amassed just 15 followers in twelve years, but I didn’t open my Twitter account to have personal conversations.

Then, I woke up one day, and I saw I had a new follower. It was Goddess Kate. Goddess Kate and I had a short conversation, and it went well. She was friendly, and beautiful, and most importantly, our conversation felt sincere.

So, I had this wonderful idea to ask her to participate in an interview for Nooz Buffet. She agreed, I was super excited, and here we are.

I’m your host, Francis Joseph LaManna, and with no further delays, it’s..

Q&A with model and escort, Goddess Kate

FL “On Twitter, you can be found as Goddess Kate. Would you like to share what your real name is and where you’re from?”

BK “My name is Brianna Kate, and I’m originally from Burlington Vermont.”

FL “During our conversation on Twitter, I asked you about a preference of names. I suggested Goddess Kate, Kate, or just Goddess (Lol) because I didn’t know if you were a dominant female. And your response was, “I’m not a Dom, but I dominate.” Great response btw! That’s seems like the perfect way for you to begin a hip-hop song; if it was, what would your next line be?

BK “🤣 I’m just lost for words.”

FL “🤣 That’s alright, hey you’re not rapper; but you’re a professional in your own right. You’re a model and an escort, what are some of the modeling jobs you were hired for?”

BK “I would not love to disclose this.”

FL “As an escort, did you ever have anyone famous contact you for services?”

BK “Yes.”

FL “I’m an author, I’ve written three books, two were published and have been available for purchase; If I decided to do a book signing event at Barnes and Nobel, what would it cost me to have you by my side for two hours?”

BK “$2,500.”

FL “Would it cost more if I wanted you to pretend you were my fiancé?”

BK “No.”

FL “Are you in a relationship?

BK “No.”

FL “What do you like to do when you’re not working? Do you have any special hobbies or personal interests that you’d like to share?”

BK “I love going to the beach when less busy or worried.”

FL “I think I saw your travel schedule on Twitter. Do you travel a lot? What does the month of August and the rest of the summer look like for you professionally?

BK “Yes, I travel a lot, the rest of August comes with a lot of travelling too.”

FL “You don’t do adult films do you?”

BK “No.”

FL “”In terms of the internet, how do we get to see more of you? Do you have a website? How do people get in touch with you for information concerning your services or personal bookings?”

BK “Working on my website, people get in touch through email.”

FL (comment) In closing, I noticed you’re a Taurus, the feminine earth sign ruling money and possessions, and a lot of people don’t know that Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty. I think it’s amazing how you’ve found a way to be successful and accumulate income through the use of your own love and beauty, and I think you’ve been able to personify your sign in the most accurate ways possible.

FL “Before you go, is there anything you’d like to say or share with the friends, fans, and followers here at Nooz Buffet?”

BK “I am a very loving and caring person.”

FL “Brianna, it was truly a pleasure. Thank you so much for taking the time to chat with us. Good luck on your continued success!

I’m your host, Francis Joseph LaManna, and this concludes our Q&A Interview with model and escort, Brianna Kate, aka, Goddess Kate.

Sex

Good evening friends, followers, and fans!

I do apologize. If you’ve been following me for the last five years, you might’ve noticed a drop in productivity. You’re right, the numbers are way down, and while it would be my choice to write and blog-posting two to three times per day, that scenario isn’t my reality yet. The bills have to get paid, and until this blog can do that, I have to work.

Okay, so, lets get into the meat of this post. I’m a fair guy, and I’m sure there are lots of men and woman out here who are fair as well. I’m not a selfish person. When two people are talking, meaning they met at some point, continued talking with one another, and their relationship eventually progressed to the level of intimacy, the big talk is going to come at some point.

The big talk is about what two people want out of a relationship. We’ve been sleeping together for several months, and things have been good. Then, one day, you tell me you want more. You want someone who’s going to be with you on a serious level. You want someone who’s going to love you and your children, and take care of things financially.

That’s a lot to ask of someone, but not unreasonable. I’m fair. I say to you, listen, I love you. We’ve been talking and sleeping with one another for a while, but at this point, I can’t give you what you want. I’m just not ready. If you feel like you want more, and you want to be able to date to find Mr. Right, go ahead. I’m not going to stop you from meeting someone who can give you what I can’t.

I’m not giving you the nod to start having casual sex and one night stands on a regular basis. That’s not right, and that’s not fair.

Moving forward.

When it comes to sex, I’ll admit, I’m not a saint. I’ve had lots of premarital sex in my 20’s. However, I was always in a relationship. I was never into one night stands, or sex with random people, and I’ll tell you why.

Sex, to me, is more enjoyable and more stimulating when love is involved. Some people love having sex, and they love having lots of random sex with lots of random people. That’s not really me.

For me, sex is first mental, then physical. It’s starts with an eye catching attraction. Something about you draws me to you, and it could be a beautiful face, a nice butt, or whatever. I’ll approach you, and things progress from there. The most enjoyable sex for me is when I can connect with my partner on a mental level. Sex starts in the mind, and it manifests physically.

I’m mature, and I don’t paly games. There’s a progression to things. You can have the best body in the world, you can have the nicest ass on the planet, and you might be really good at what you do, but if we’re not connecting on a mental level, none of that matters.

To the people who are more serious about sex, and the people who might not be sexually active yet, I had an epiphany several months ago. My body is a temple, and I want to keep that temple clean and healthy.

You eat healthy, you exercise, and you take good care of yourself. You don’t put drugs, alcohol, or nicotine in your body. You’re in pristine condition, untouched. That was me at one time, and I’m sure that’s a lot of people right now.

So, let me share something with you no one ever bothered to share with me.

Sex is a choice, and you should be viewing your body as a temple because if you’re going through all this trouble to keep your temple clean, healthy, and pure, you’re not going to let just anyone enter your temple. You’re not going to be so willing to share your temple.

That was my epiphany. Your body is a house of god. You can’t see what’s going on on the inside, but that’s why the outside is a reflection of the inside. Whatever you see on the surface of your body, is an outward physical manifestation of something going on within. Take your body seriously. Take your life seriously. It’s okay to play, it’s okay to have fun, and it’s okay to hang out and spend time with friends, but make yourself and your life your number one priority because I know now at 43, that no one else is going to.

Have a great night, and enjoy your Sunday tomorrow.