Don’t Listen to Them

If you have a “friend” in your life who puts you down, get rid of them.

If they attack your character, get rid of them.

I let someone into my life who has made a habit out of trying to convince me that I have a mental disorder. This person doesn’t understand me, doesn’t listen to me, and overpowers me every time I speak.

Tonight, I blocked this persons phone number, and I’m not looking back.

Steer clear of the people who claim to know what’s best for you. No one knows you better than you know yourself, and you may or may not realize that, but it’s true.

I made this person a list of positive affirmations, and she threw it out and told me I was conceited. Positive affirmations are how we reprogram negative thought patterns. They’re are meant to help us love ourselves, build self-confidence, and think more positively.

I wrote that list with heart and soul, and that’s how she responded. She threw it out.

I am an individual.

I am capable of making decisions for myself.

I am a critical thinker and a problem solver.

I love myself.

The truth is that everything starts with you. We’re all unique and special in our own way, and I don’t feel one ounce of guilt or shame for making Francis LaManna number one. That’s not self-centered or conceited.

As a single adult without children who’s turning 44 this year, I’ve learned some things about life. No one is going to take care of you. You have to make yourself a priority.

There are lots of people around you who are scared, and because they’re scared, they need lots of things. They’re needy. They need someone to relax them, someone who can build them up and tell them everything is going to be okay, and they need constant reassurance.

Think about what you were like when you woke up scared from a nightmare when you were a child. You called for mommy and daddy. You ran to them.

The problem with adults who live in fear is that they’re draining. They’re a black hole that sucks up all the laughter, good vibes, and positivity around them. If you’ve ever watched The Celestine Prophecy, then you’ll understand this.

When people are afraid or live in fear, they can become envious and jealous of someone who isn’t. They may act irrationally, become aggressive, and attack when their needs aren’t met or they encounter something they don’t understand. To them, it seems like everything comes easy to the strong individual, and they envy them for that.

Life is about timing, and with timing comes opportunities. The less fearful you are, the more opportunities you’ll have. It’s that simple.

Everyday, we’re exposed to narratives and news stories that are driven by fear. They’re saturated with death and violence, and they’re designed to control you. If you’re living in fear, then they’ve already won. They control you, and you’re controlled by your fear, and because of that, you’re missing out on opportunities and not living your life.

Eventually, your fear will turn into anger because you’re missing opportunities and not living your life, and it is at that point that you, yourself, will become a controller.

So, you begin to control everyone and everything around you.

I forgive you.

I forgive you for judging me, for not listening to me, for overpowering me when I tried to speak, for telling me I was crazy, for telling me I was mental, for telling me no, don’t, stop, and you can’t. I forgive you for not having the confidence in me that I had in myself. I forgive you for ignoring me and for not believing me. I forgive you for lying.

I forgive you for trying to control me.

Readers and subscribers, I ask that you hold yourself accountable for your actions and behaviors. I ask that you be honest with yourself, and I want you to know that you have the power to change if you don’t like the person you’ve become.

You can destroy good relationships and the love someone has for you by trying to control them.

Don’t be a controller.

Don’t listen to them.

No one is going to take care of you, so it’s necessary for you to make yourself a priority. Limit the resources and time you give anyone who calls you self-centered or conceited for doing so.

And, if I, because of my own fears, tried to control you, I do apologize.

Suffocating Anxiety; Break Free

This is important, well, I think it is. When it comes to oxygen and breathing, I’m dead serious. Now, there can be many reasons for why we feel anxious or short of breath, but specifically, I’m addressing relationship suffocation.

When I say relationship, it isn’t necessarily referring to our boyfriends/girlfriends, or our husbands and wives. It can be, but a relationship can be any acquaintance, friend, or coworker we talk to and see daily or once in a while.

Just two days ago, there was a man I knew who was in a bad mood. He was having a bad day for whatever reason, and instead of figuring his problem out for himself by himself, he chose to be testy with me.

We’ve all been in that situation, and it’s not right. Not every day is going to be magnificent, some days are going to suck, and each one of us, individually, needs to realize when there’s an issue and do the best we can to work towards an outcome that promotes positive interaction again.

In other words, instead of taking your problems out on innocent people, go address the issues and people who are upsetting you.

A while ago, and I don’t talk about this much, but on several occasions, I experienced an immediate cutoff of oxygen. I’m not talking about a little anxiety where it’s hard to breath; this felt like someone snuck up behind me and put a plastic bag over my face. This was not a gradual reduction of oxygen, but rather, an immediate cutoff!

That was enough for me. I needed to get to the bottom of that issue and make sure it never happened again.

When it comes to relationships, as we’ve described, an open conversation is required if they’re responsible for your suffocating. After you work out everything with that person, you must:

Set Boundaries; be firm and don’t give an inch.

Take Back Your Privacy

Express Yourself; if someone else’s behavior is affecting you let them know.

Strive for Independence; not having to rely on people frees you from their control.

Be a Leader

Cut Off General Statements: If some say’s this sucks, don’t agree if you feel differently. It’s okay to have an opinion.

Nurture Yourself and Enjoy Your Time Alone

Take Time To Do Nothing

The most important thing is for you to tell yourself;

“I’m a person to!”

“I’m a human being and I have needs.”

“I deserve to be happy.”

We are not mind readers, you have to speak up if you have concerns, feel violated, or have been treated in a way you didn’t deserve. Start putting yourself first, and start making yourself and your life a priority.

People who come off as aggressive, loud, and obnoxious, are that way for a reason. Usually it’s because they’re afraid or insecure about something. When people are afraid they try to control, and it’s their controlling behavior that’s causing your suffocation because think about it..

If someone is controlling they’re overreaching, intrusive, and could care less about your boundaries, your privacy, and your opinions. Until these people resolve their personal issues, they’re always in some way going to be a drain on you, your life, and your energy.

Stand tall my friends.

We Didn’t Lose Our Country, We Lost Control of Our Government

We The People created the Federal Government. We delegated rights to it, and we funded it. It’s growth was based on revenue, its income through federal taxes.

We had control.

Then someone created a private bank, called the Federal Reserve. There’s nothing governmental or federal about this bank. It’s privately owned.

All of a sudden, someone in government said, we can borrow money from the Federal Reserve. We can take control from the people if we break our dependency on their money. Lets just print all the money we want, and we won’t need the money generated from federal taxes.

No, someone else said. We can’t. Our money is backed by gold. If we have a million dollars worth of gold, then there can only be one-million dollars of paper money in circulation.

Well, lets end that. Lets put an end to the gold standard.

Okay, but what about inflation and the value of the dollar fluctuating with market conditions?

Ah, don’t worry about it.

Okay.

We’re losing control.

Then, they took it one step further. Money was only one form of control we had, the other was the contract. Over time, our Federal Government succeeded at convincing us the sky was purple.

The have us believing the United States of America is a democracy when it is not.

We lost control.

Breakdown By Design

“A breakdown of civilization by design,” this is what Alex Jones is calling it. I’ve often asked myself, where is the system going with all this tyranny, and it’s not just medical. I was basically just charged with disorderly conduct and fined $500 dollars for saying Fuck in public!

Justin Trudeau in Canada is talking about “Bad Thoughts.” What is this an episode of the Twilight Zone?

END GAME

I’ve often asked myself, with the force of masking and vaccinations in mind, where is this going to end. Because we see people loosing their jobs and other rights and natural freedoms because of it. But this medical tyranny is just a part of it.

America has always been a place of clear social stratification, we do have poor, middle class, rich, and wealthy. That’s not a secret, but it’s Capitalism that allows us an opportunity to climb. What all Americans are facing right now is a combination of socialism, fascism, and communism. You can see the socialism in our institutions, you can see the fascist elements as the Amazon’s Walmart’s, corporations and tech giants are partnering with our elected officials at the highest levels.

According to Alex Jones:

“The Great Reset is designed to destroy supply chains, and knockout small businesses that employ more than 90% of the public. Once they have you under control they put you on a social credit score and universal income. And at that point they can dictate every facet of your life. That’s what they want.”

So, the time has come for us to ask ourselves what we want.

Do you want to be able to go to work and earn a paycheck, and have the ability to come and go as you please-wherever and whenever you want? Do you want life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness?

Or do you want to be subordinate to a controlling and tyrannical government?