Sex

Good evening friends, followers, and fans!

I do apologize. If you’ve been following me for the last five years, you might’ve noticed a drop in productivity. You’re right, the numbers are way down, and while it would be my choice to write and blog-posting two to three times per day, that scenario isn’t my reality yet. The bills have to get paid, and until this blog can do that, I have to work.

Okay, so, lets get into the meat of this post. I’m a fair guy, and I’m sure there are lots of men and woman out here who are fair as well. I’m not a selfish person. When two people are talking, meaning they met at some point, continued talking with one another, and their relationship eventually progressed to the level of intimacy, the big talk is going to come at some point.

The big talk is about what two people want out of a relationship. We’ve been sleeping together for several months, and things have been good. Then, one day, you tell me you want more. You want someone who’s going to be with you on a serious level. You want someone who’s going to love you and your children, and take care of things financially.

That’s a lot to ask of someone, but not unreasonable. I’m fair. I say to you, listen, I love you. We’ve been talking and sleeping with one another for a while, but at this point, I can’t give you what you want. I’m just not ready. If you feel like you want more, and you want to be able to date to find Mr. Right, go ahead. I’m not going to stop you from meeting someone who can give you what I can’t.

I’m not giving you the nod to start having casual sex and one night stands on a regular basis. That’s not right, and that’s not fair.

Moving forward.

When it comes to sex, I’ll admit, I’m not a saint. I’ve had lots of premarital sex in my 20’s. However, I was always in a relationship. I was never into one night stands, or sex with random people, and I’ll tell you why.

Sex, to me, is more enjoyable and more stimulating when love is involved. Some people love having sex, and they love having lots of random sex with lots of random people. That’s not really me.

For me, sex is first mental, then physical. It’s starts with an eye catching attraction. Something about you draws me to you, and it could be a beautiful face, a nice butt, or whatever. I’ll approach you, and things progress from there. The most enjoyable sex for me is when I can connect with my partner on a mental level. Sex starts in the mind, and it manifests physically.

I’m mature, and I don’t paly games. There’s a progression to things. You can have the best body in the world, you can have the nicest ass on the planet, and you might be really good at what you do, but if we’re not connecting on a mental level, none of that matters.

To the people who are more serious about sex, and the people who might not be sexually active yet, I had an epiphany several months ago. My body is a temple, and I want to keep that temple clean and healthy.

You eat healthy, you exercise, and you take good care of yourself. You don’t put drugs, alcohol, or nicotine in your body. You’re in pristine condition, untouched. That was me at one time, and I’m sure that’s a lot of people right now.

So, let me share something with you no one ever bothered to share with me.

Sex is a choice, and you should be viewing your body as a temple because if you’re going through all this trouble to keep your temple clean, healthy, and pure, you’re not going to let just anyone enter your temple. You’re not going to be so willing to share your temple.

That was my epiphany. Your body is a house of god. You can’t see what’s going on on the inside, but that’s why the outside is a reflection of the inside. Whatever you see on the surface of your body, is an outward physical manifestation of something going on within. Take your body seriously. Take your life seriously. It’s okay to play, it’s okay to have fun, and it’s okay to hang out and spend time with friends, but make yourself and your life your number one priority because I know now at 43, that no one else is going to.

Have a great night, and enjoy your Sunday tomorrow.

Free Writing..

I talk a lot about our mainstream news outlets, and it’s usually not nice. I’m all about the individual, independent thought, and free thinkers so, it bothers when the people who work for these companies run a story and side with the majority when what’s popular isn’t necessarily right or true.

That’s dangerous, but I’m not writing this to continue dumping on the mainstream. All of that information that’s considered mainstream serves a purpose. It creates and drives cultural trends, and it’s only by coming up through the culture that you’ll eventually be able to awaken out of it.

I’m being nice. I mean, there are some people that don’t even see a need for it because they feel like it sets us back. That’s true, but I guess some people need it.

How would you know what beautiful was if you didn’t have something ugly to compare it to? Not everything we own has a price tag. Not everything we own has monetary value.

There’s a sentimental and emotional attachment we have to some of our possessions. We have possessions that are valuable and sometimes priceless because of what they mean to us personally.

I digress..

Sometimes you can’t blame the people who work for these mainstream companies because most of them are asleep. Some of them don’t understand the magnitude of what they decide to show and talk about.

As a student of Journalism, I was taught the news should be unbiased. That doesn’t mean taking a portion of a story and selling the public your personal spin of it. Then I found out the political left has their media, which is partial to the democratic party, and the right has their media that’s partial to the republican party.

Big mess.

For those coming up through the culture, there’s some advice I have for you as I’m waiting here on the other side.

It’s okay to be American. It’s okay to be proud of being an American. Waves and waves of people left their homelands to be apart this nation, that was founded on independence, freedom, liberty, and a shared sovereignty amongst the people. I’m not going to get political on you now though, because there are some complicated problems that occurred over time. Meaning, if you’re a teenager now, you have no idea what life was like here before 911.

And that in itself is a problem because that’s the slow change over time that creates the wrong change in the end. It’s a gradual change over time from one generation to the next that has the current generation thinking they have it good or they have it bad when they have nothing to compare that to.

Read and study the history. Stay away from stereotypes. You are an individual, you are not the group, and no member of the group is you. Don’t be afraid to be different, and don’t be afraid to stand out from the group. I know kids and teenagers sometimes suppress themselves, their abilities and talents just to blend in with the group.

When it’s your time to shine, shine. It might be at a time when everyone else around you is down and out, but believe me, when you were down, no one said let me ruin my life to make you fell better about yours.

Stay away from the race baiters and the haters. Stay away from people who bring you down and stay away from those who take without giving. Surround yourself with people who have similar goals and people who think at your level or higher.

Ask questions, and think for yourself. Think and act with common sense. See yourself as the judge of your life and decide for yourself what’s good or bad for you personally. What’s bad for you might be good for me, and just because you think something I did was wrong, that doesn’t mean it wasn’t the right thing for me to do.

And lastly, I leave you with this photo. If you’re not capable of this, then it’s what you should be striving for.

Seeing both sides and judging for yourself.

Nooz Now

August 13, 2022 Edition

Welcome to this edition of Nooz Now! Today is Saturday, August 13th, and it’s absolutely gorgeous outside-sunny, 78 degrees and not a cloud in the sky!

I would like to congratulate all the new and first time authors out there. I myself am not too far removed from that special moment. My first book was published in 2021, and the second in 2022. If I could share any advice, it would be to not get lost and caught up in the excitement of publishing your work, especially if you’re self-publishing. There’s a business side to this and make sure you’re getting exactly what you pay for. Also, I would go over all the sales reports and make sure you either have access or there will be some proof of who’s buying your books, where they’re buying it, and how many copies they’re purchasing. I just recently ran into a first-time issue with my publishing company that hasn’t been resolved yet. They’re telling me two recent sales that showed up on one of my reports are actually not new-they were apart of a bulk order made by a company in 2021-yet they can show no proof that that’s actually true. These are the technicalities you will never think of when you’re publishing for the first time, but you’ve been warned.

Photo by Jean-Daniel Francoeur on Pexels.com

In NFL Preseason action tonight; the Pittsburgh Steelers play the Seattle Seahawks-kickoff is scheduled for 7 PM. The Dallas Cowboys and the Denver Broncos kickoff at 9 PM. At 7:30, it’s the Miami Dolphins and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, at 8 o’clock the New Orleans Saints and the Houston Texans will have their start, and at 10 PM this evening, it’s the LA Rams and the San Diego Chargers.

For those who missed it, the first NFL preseason game took place on Thursday, August 4th; it was the Raiders and the Jaguars, and the Raiders won 27-11. So, this is actually week two.

Anna Maria Tolomello, the owner of a pizzeria in Bucks County, Pennsylvania, has her appearance in front of a judge yesterday morning. Tolomello was accused of killing her partner and trying to bury the body. The District Attorney in this case is seeking a 1st-degree murder conviction.

Did you know two publishing giants were in court in Washington, DC? I didn’t-until five minutes ago. Apparently, Penguin Random House and Simon and Schuster are in court, and PRH is fighting to purchase S&S from Paramount Global. According to Esquire Dot Com, President Biden’s Department of Justice filed suit to block this deal in November of 2021. What they’re saying is if PRH purchases S&S it could be destructive to the whole industry especially as far as authors and customers are concerned. Personally, I find it interesting, that I wasn’t even aware this case was going on, and you’d think as an author, you’d at least be updated about what’s going on in the publishing industry. The second thing is that here again we have government involvement.

I was surfing the web the other day. I was looking for news articles from other countries concerning the moon landing and the JFK assassination, but what I found were documents that at one time, were Top Secret, but have obviously been released to the public.

In a Top Secret document, from the Gerald R. Ford Library, titled, Reaction of Soviet and Communist Party Officials to the Assassination of President John F. Kennedy, Gus Hall, General Secretary, Communist Party, USA, informed a source on December 4, 1963, that it was his opinion Lee Harvey Oswald was killed by the “ultraright” in order to prevent him from talking.

It was also mentioned in this document, Progressive Labor, the official publication of the Progressive Labor Party, issued a Special Supplement dated November 27, 1963, which contained an article attempting to raise doubts as to weather Oswald actually killed President Kennedy. In the same magazine, it was also mentioned that Oswald could’ve possibly been “framed” and the Warren Commission did not make a through investigation of the assassination.

On September 16, 1965, an unnamed sourced claimed the KGB was in possession of data purporting to indicate President Lyndon B. Johnson was responsible for the assassination of the late President John F. Kennedy. In view of this information, the KGB indicated that it was necessary for the Soviet Government to know the personal relationships between LBJ and the Kennedy family, especially that of Robert “Ted” Kennedy.

From what I’ve gathered, it seems like the Russians were conducting there own investigations into the JFK assassination, and I think part of that had to do with Lee Harvey Oswald visiting Russia in 1959. While in Russia, the report says he tried to commit suicide.

Lots Going On! Thank you for visiting Nooz Buffet, and reading this edition of Nooz Now! Enjoy the rest of your day!

Why is Reincarnation So Hard to Believe..

Most of us have been programmed to believe we have no control and no say when it comes to our salvation. According to Catholicism, this life we’re living is our one and only, and if we’re good, we’ll spend eternity in heaven with Jesus after death. If we’re bad, we spend eternity in hell with the Devil.

All we can do is pray, and hope we’re in God’s good graces. This is what we’ve been programmed to believe since about 300 AD.

Reincarnation is not even discussed in our Western astrology. The doctrine of Karma and reincarnation comes to us from Hinduism.

What you really need to do is stay neutral and remain open-minded. Most people who follow my blog or read my books are familiar with my roots in religion. I was raised as a Catholic. I was born into Catholicism because my parents were Catholics, but I never fully committed myself to the religion.

Finally today, the true roots of my faith are coming to me, and that’s because I was patient and didn’t commit myself. When you make a commitment-you lose neutrality. It took 42 years.

I do believe that Jesus existed, although, I believe his legacy has been distorted and twisted over the years. I can express what I believe to be true about Jesus, but it’s not necessary right now.

What is important, is that we start deprogramming ourselves. I have something to share with you from a book I bought, The Weiser Field Guide to Ascension, written by Cal Garrison.

Cal Garrison’s The Weiser Field Guide to Ascension

I bought this book in 2011 just in case the Mayan prophecies were true. 🤣 If there was a way to ascend to another dimension, I wanted to know! But seriously, Garrison is so right. Our lives have become mechanized and we are so out of touch and confused by it all that we don’t even remember what it means to be alive. Remember, in the womb, the very first thing that develops is the heart. It the beginning and the end of your life.

Have a blessed night!